Venus in Virgo is in its detriment, that´s why dating this sign might be a little bit difficult. Reason for that is that love and ratio don´t go very well together but this is the exact thing Venus in Virgo is trying to achieve. She is trying to figure out her love life by her brain and that this the reason why she gets burnt sometimes. Before I start, I would like to tell you that aspects to Venus are always very important and color these person´s love life in a big way, so you should consider that as well.
There is something innocent about Venus in Virgo
I do have Venus in Virgo, so I can definitely talk from my own experience. The thing is that what I am about to write here is something I find to be very ok in love life. But I know, as I deal with clients and astrology on a daily basis, that this is not how it should be working in love matters. During my life I had many “fights” and “bickerings” with my partners. I mainly had partners with Venus in Scorpio, so I was very intimidated by it but loved it at the same time. By the way, thing that is common for Venus in Virgo and Scorpio is that both signs are commited to stick with each other once they start a relationship. And that is a good news, right? 🙂
First thing you should know about Venus in Virgo is that you should not rush her into things and even relationship. If you come to Venus in Virgo as too strong or too many messages and phone calls (at the beginning), it will actually scares her and she will back off. She will also think of you as being rude. This will be clear sign for her to sign off from this relationship. I get that if you have Venus in Scorpio you really don´t calculate how many messages and how often it is appropriate to send because you operate on your instincts but Venus in Virgo does…
Venus in Virgo calculates in love… This Venus longs for perfection and has that famous list of qualities she is after in potential mate. The thing is.. we all have flaws and cannot typically live to her standards. It is very common that people who have Venus in Virgo or in aspect to Saturn or Venus in the 10th house choose to stay single for long periods of life.
Key Word for Venus in Virgo is investment (how romantic that is, right?). This Virgo is analytical and good with words. If this Virgo invests in you – her time, energy, service, money – you know that you are worth her attention. This Virgo is not usually romantic in heart, unless she has some aspects to Neptune or Venus. Even though she appears aloof, truth is that this Venus is shy, really shy. That is why this Venus might have some difficulties in engaging with opposite sex in general. There are these blockades and she seems to be just awkard in these situations and sometimes suffers from social anxiety. She hates loud people and places.
If you want to impress this Venus, you should definitely be on time and have good manners. This Venus follows rules of dating and is very organized. It brings her sense of easiness and security to know what are exact plans of the date and when she will eventually be back at home. This Venus only very rarely gets carried away on the first date by some sexual act or something. First dates are really about figuring you out, remember, she is in her head instead of the heart. I mean, not listening to heart can really not pay off for her, but once she makes up her mind that she will commit, she will stay with you until the bitter end. I have to admit that it may take some time to get intimate with her. So, if you don´t have patience with that, you should try some other Venus 🙂