As a relationship progresses, Mars person will be the person who will be initiator of everything in their relationship and in Ascendant person as well. Mars person will have his own perception about Ascendant person, how he should be, and most importantly, what Ascendant person should achieve in life, in career, in his overall presentation. Mars person pretty much knowns where Ascendant person should be heading and HOW. Unfortunately with square, Mars actions towards Ascendant becomes rude, disruptive and really not received well by Ascendant person.At some point of their relationship Ascendant person may think that Mars person only wants to upset or argue with them. Ascendant person will think of Mars peson as of a bully (although this might be truth for Mars person). Mars person will like to cancel or diminish Ascendant person´s own actions, own plans, This will not be welcomed well by Ascendant person.
Mars on the ASC feels like you are constantly bullied
Ascendant is very important point in astrology, in overall relationship compatibility. When we judge how the relationship will look on day to day basis, we have to consider how ascendant is aspected in synastry. Whatever planet of other person is aspecting our ascendant we will definitely feel it. After all, ascendant rules our physical body as well, so when any planet aspects our ascendant we will literally feel weight of that planet on our skin. When this planet happens to be a Mars in harsh aspect, few things will most likely follow. Mars is our action planet. Mars is that solder of our birth chart, and generally speaking, this planet is very active in every chart. How we do things, how we get what we want to, how we pursue our goals – for all this is responsible Mars. Also what strategy do we apply in reaching our goals. Certainly, there is a big difference between someone who has Mars in Scorpio or Mars in Gemini – how they approach things-very differently, right.
Now – if someone´s Mars makes square to our Ascendant, first of all you have to understand that asc is sensitive point…so we definitely feel other person´s influence here very strongly. In general, when it comes to squares, these are aspects of tension and can be felt from the beginning of the relationship. Squares work tricky, especially at the beginning. It is more common than not, that Ascendant personl feels very excited and sexually stimulated by Mars person. Ascendant typically finds Mars person to be hot, energetic and fun to be around. But, it is just at the beginning…
Mars person will perceive Ascendant as someone who is only wasting their and his life and is really heading nowhere. If Mars person will be aggresive or somehow abusive to Ascendant person, this depends on how Mars person handles his Mars. How strong is Mars persons Mars, where is placed and aspects made to his natal chart Mars. If we have Mars person who has Mars in Gemini in his natal chart receiving only smooth aspects and Mars is not very important in his natal chart, like for example, it is in his 9th house, then this energy will be softer, because Mars person is not aggresive person in his core self. But if we have Mars person who has f.i. Mars in Scorpio in the 4th house squaring Pluto in his birth chart, then yes, it will be very different and difficult for Ascendant.
Is there a solution to this? Is here something positive? Firstly, you have to bear in mind that here we are talking about one aspect. This energy – as described above will be definitely present in your relationship. But it can be handleable if you have other supportive aspects in your synastry chart. Or no.