When we have difficult aspect between Venus and Pluto in our Birth Chart we must be aware that we have two money houses involved. Venus naturally rules 2nd house in our birth chart and Pluto rules the opposite – 8th house in astrology. However, both houses operate from different angles, and so you.
Women who have this aspect are considered to be really beautiful and attractive. These women are sexy, subtly seductive and there is lot of sexual magnetism around these creatures. You find these women commonly on Instagram. They have many followers. They may often be involved in beauty industry. Everyone who has Pluto in difficult aspect has magnetic personality and likes to show off. Women with this aspect likes to wear black color, leather clothes and black eyeliner. Typically have a big hair.
If you have this aspect, you have no problem to attract or seduce opposite sex. This goes very naturally to you and sex plays big role here. You are very much aware that it is really sex, money, power and occult what rules the world. So, you are attractive and easily attract men. So, where is the problem then? You know that you are prone to choose difficult men. Love triangles are a big theme of Venus/Pluto people. You often get caught up in a relationship which is either very much one sided or you simply choose a man who is unavailable. You have hidden radar to fall in love with man who is already taken, married or at least emotionally unavailable. Problem must be involved everytime you fall in love.
That is the reason why your relationships are combative. You fight with your partner over control and power. There is drama involved, like every time. Love is consuming and you want to figure out your partner inside out. You want to take him, like literally. All or nothing. You get very easily attached to the object of your interest. You fall in love easily but you have hard times to let him go. So, in case, he feels suffocated by you in this relationship and wants to break up with you, that is when real drama begins. You know that you can exaggerate and take love matters into the extremes. This aspect is connected to stalking and obsession. You know you are able to stalk your partner or potential partner months ago before you start to talk to them personally. Jealousy is another monster that is very present in your romances. When you get insecure, you immediately start to be jealous on what your partner is doing.
Love is synonym of hurt and pain. This is what you have been taught in early childhood. Average person cannot even imagine how difficult lessons of life and love you already had. And – again, as with everything, this goes down into your childhood and repressed memories. That is where your first love experiences were created. That´s why this aspect is connected to one of our care givers – mom or dad. It depends on the house involved here. These difficult aspect of Venus and Pluto have tremendous potential if you listen to what they have to say. Here, you have lessons of self-love, self-worth and self-esteem. This aspect is here to teach you how to love your body and not just to cover everything with make-up.
Love does not have to hurt and this is the ultimate goal of Venus-Pluto women to find out in this lifetime.