Scorpio´s Feelings “Silence Speaks Louder”
Scorpio zodiac sign is the 8th sign of the zodiac and represents things that are buried underground and hidden. Lot of secrets as well. Scorpio is water sign, feminine and fixed. As stubborn as Scorpio really is, there is some fragileness in them. They are overly sensitive and they are painfully aware of that. Scorpio is such a complex and I am not sure if someone is able to give you definite answer about them. What I found out is that there is still something more to them, something you would not expect and can be very shaky. Their life experiences are not the easy ones and even if they want life to be easy, this is the word I would never use when talking about Scorpio.
In his core, Scorpio is not talker at all
Water signs are also a bit cloudy, hard to grasp and hard to read. In general, we can say that Scorpio people have rich emotional life which stays hidden, private and pretty much no one is allowed to access it. I like to compare their feelings to an iceberg. We can see just a tiny bit of it but majority of iceberg stays hidden and is very guarded. And so are their feelings. People would be really shocked if they found out what is really going on in head and heart of their Scorpio guy. Nothing is simpley as it seems with Scorpions.
What I observed with Scorpio people is that they operate like time does not exist. They are very attuned to their inner world and do not care much about your demands, expectations or wishes. If something terrible happens to them, it is like time has stopped. This is the stage when they go into withdrawal state and do not want to communicate with anyone. At that point you don´t have any access to Scorpio and I would recommend you to back off. At times when they feel hurt, disapointed, betrayed or simply misunderstood they shut off. If you are dealing with Scorpio you have to be aware that they are not talkers at all. So try to discuss their emotions with them (which is very much Gemini style) will not help.
Processing betrayal is a long time, sometimes life time process for them and they typically are not able to get over it completely at all. Pain that is experienced by betrayal of trust is raw and it is really like actual knife has been stabbed into their back. But really-don´t expect any outbursts of anger here. And this is why it is all so confusing. They appear frozen, cold, alooof, distant. At this point their pain is so big that it cannot go any higher and this is their reaction. Time will heal everything? I don´t believe it when it comes to Scorpio. It hurts the same still.
Scorpio´s feelings strike them to their soul and heart directly. This is the reason why they are so very cautious about other people and who they let it. Quite frankly, it is difficult to know them on very deep and intimate level, even though intimacy is what they crave the most.
Scorpio is controlling sign. If you have strong scorpio planets or Pluto aspects or planets in the 8th house, you are controlling as well. This is the reason why they are scared of being powerless by their own emotions. And this happens when they fall in love.
With Scorpio people, there is always going on that is deep and psychological.
